The Importance of Good Friends

Roy posted some great thoughts concerning what he has learned about men and women:

When men do not connect/hang/love other men they:

• don’t lead
• their aspirations fizzle
• they stare at porn
• they get fat and watch reality TV with their wife or girlfriend
• we never meet expectations, not even our own

When women do not connect/hang/love other women they;

• become nags
• they crave control, if they lose it they become more of #1
• they hate both men and women
• their expectations get higher, no-one can ever meet them

In the end this boils down to where the gospel is meeting you….and if you are meeting with the gospel I believe it eventually leads to healthy same-sex relationships.

**the presupposition is that you have good friends...